Romancing Your Lover
What happened to those days when you would bat those luscious eyes or lick your lips just to grab his attention? Gentlemen, what about you? When was the last time you wrote that little love note expressing your deepest feelings for her? Perhaps even bought a little...
Fantasy to Reality: Things to Explore Before Living Together!
On a previous show, I centered on breaking through the fantasies and jumping to the realities of moving in together or marriage. In a nutshell, most people begin wildly in love, constantly desiring one another. Life is easy and flowing along. The next step, of course,...
Women and Men Actually Want the Same things?
This question appears illogical, irrational, and simply messed right up. No way could men and women want the same things, let alone the same things in a relationship! Well, I’m going to clue you into some research I conducted over 5 years and 30 college classes, in...
What is Your Relationship Teaching Your Kids?
Look deeply into your relationship. Is it the kind that you would want for your kids when they receive adulthood? This question gets asked of my new clients frequently. They looked puzzled at first then expressions of shame and guilt spawn across their faces. As you...
Societal Love
When I think of love, I often get bewildered by its definition and meaning. I mean, really is it about sharing and being there for each other? Love to me is about feeling emotionally safe to express your true essence, who you really are! You can fart in front of each...
Social Media Impact on Relationships
Many people blame social media; Facebook, Tiktok, Instagram, Whatsapp, and online chat rooms for the demise of their relationships. Numerous couples come into my office with this very complaint: “If it wasn’t for Facebook, my wife wouldn’t have cheated!” If it wasn’t...
Sexual Intent
How's everyone doing? Seriously, how are you really doing? How often do you ignore problems in the bedroom, or in your relationship? Well, typically if there are problems in one area, it affects the other. How many women feel like they are just a "piece of meat" in...
SENSUALITY & SEDUCTION
Do you have an idea of what sensuality entails, or what it means? Everyone has that smirk on their face, contemplating their last sexually fulfilled experience. Wait, that may be partially true. 😉 However, are you sensual outside of the sexual realm? Are you confused...
Gender Stereotypes
It’s the battle of the sexes! I think there was even a TV show titled such in the 90s. Most people attune themselves to stereotyped propaganda as to “all men” and “all women” do such and such. Even the well-promoted John Gray wrote his book Men are From Mars; Women...
Entitled Kids
I’m stepping out of my relationship and sex counselor clothes and going to discuss a pet peeve of mine. This irks me, as well as a ton of other people alike. It’s those ill-mannered, self-entitled, and disrespectful children and teens in the world. Perhaps it’s only a...
Domestic Violence Reality Check
With the media influences of the late and pathetic occurrences associated with former NFL violence as the Ray Rice domestic assault and Adrian Pederson’s child abuse case, I often get asked why people stay in abusive relationships. "They're stupid for staying" is a...
Contemplating an Affair?
Have you been contemplating having an affair? Not getting your needs met with your current partner? Chances are you are feeling ignored, not desired, not listened to, taken for granted, or not important. Perhaps you are craving a combination of these elements?...