Romancing Your Lover

Romancing Your Lover

What happened to those days when you would bat those luscious eyes or lick your lips just to grab his attention? Gentlemen, what about you? When was the last time you wrote that little love note expressing your deepest feelings for her? Perhaps even bought a little...
Fantasy to Reality: Things to Explore Before Living Together!

Fantasy to Reality: Things to Explore Before Living Together!

On a previous show, I centered on breaking through the fantasies and jumping to the realities of moving in together or marriage. In a nutshell, most people begin wildly in love, constantly desiring one another. Life is easy and flowing along. The next step, of course,...
Women and Men Actually Want the Same things?

Women and Men Actually Want the Same things?

This question appears illogical, irrational, and simply messed right up. No way could men and women want the same things, let alone the same things in a relationship! Well, I’m going to clue you into some research I conducted over 5 years and 30 college classes, in...
What is Your Relationship Teaching Your Kids?

What is Your Relationship Teaching Your Kids?

Look deeply into your relationship. Is it the kind that you would want for your kids when they receive adulthood? This question gets asked of my new clients frequently. They looked puzzled at first then expressions of shame and guilt spawn across their faces. As you...
Societal Love

Societal Love

When I think of love, I often get bewildered by its definition and meaning. I mean, really is it about sharing and being there for each other?  Love to me is about feeling emotionally safe to express your true essence, who you really are! You can fart in front of each...
Social Media Impact on Relationships

Social Media Impact on Relationships

Many people blame social media; Facebook, Tiktok, Instagram, Whatsapp, and online chat rooms for the demise of their relationships. Numerous couples come into my office with this very complaint: “If it wasn’t for Facebook, my wife wouldn’t have cheated!” If it wasn’t...